Shivon Zilis says in X post that Elon Musk has ended their relationship
Shivon Zilis, mother of four of Elon Musk's children, wrote on X that she had gone from "in love" to "let go" in a week. The post followed a report that Musk had stopped following her on the platform.
Updated (version 2). New coverage since the last version from Raw Story, The Times of India.
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The story, neutrally told
MixedShivon Zilis, an AI executive who shares four children with Elon Musk, said in a long post on X that her relationship with him had ended abruptly. NewsweekN “said on Thursday that her relationship with the billionaire had come to an abrupt end.” Read at Newsweek ↗ The VergeLC “Shivon Zilis announced that she and the father of four of her children, Elon Musk, had broken up on X.” Read at The Verge ↗ MixedShe wrote: "It's hard to go from in love to let go in a week with no warning, but that's just how it is sometimes." NewsweekN “"It's hard to go from in love to let go in a week with no warning, but that's just how it is sometimes," Zilis said in the post.” Read at Newsweek ↗ The VergeLC ““It’s hard to go from in love to let go in a week with no warning, but that’s just how it is sometimes.”” Read at The Verge ↗ MixedZilis posted by quote-tweeting the account Big Tech Alert, which had reported that Musk no longer followed her on X, a report that fuelled speculation about their status. The VergeLC “she quote-tweeted a post from “Big Tech Alert,” an account that, among other things, monitors what accounts are following and unfollowing each other.” Read at The Verge ↗ NewsweekN “the account Big Tech Alert reported that Musk was no longer following Zilis on X, fueling speculation about the status of their relationship.” Read at Newsweek ↗
LeftRaw Story reported that Zilis also shared a screenshot of what she presented as one of their last text exchanges, with a contact saved as "E", timestamped just after 11 p.m. on Thursday, Sept. 24, which mentions a White House dinner for Chinese President Xi Jinping. Raw StoryL “She also shared a screenshot of what she presented as one of their last text exchanges, which mentions details of a White House dinner with Chinese President Xi Jinping.”“"Love you too," the contact replied just after 11 p.m. on Thursday, Sept. 24, according to the screenshot's timestamp.” Read at Raw Story ↗ MixedIn the post she said she was happy to have shown Musk "how it feels to be deeply understood, nurtured, and peacefully loved with stability and gentleness", and said she had loved him "more than life itself". NewsweekN “"I feel happy that I got to show Elon how it feels to be deeply understood, nurtured, and peacefully loved with stability and gentleness," she wrote.” Read at Newsweek ↗ The VergeLC ““I’ve loved him more than life itself and he’s taught me 100 lifetimes of knowledge” Read at The Verge ↗ CentreShe said she hoped she and Musk could be "great friends and coparents", that their four children were "beautiful little loves of my life", and that she would "always be cheering for his happiness". NewsweekN “I do hope and pray he and I can be great friends and coparents.”“will always be cheering for his happiness. God speed, Elon, the world is lucky to have you.” Read at Newsweek ↗
MixedNewsweek said it had contacted X, SpaceX and Neuralink for comment; Raw Story, citing People, said Musk's representatives did not immediately respond to requests for comment, and none of the four articles reports a response from Musk. NewsweekN “Newsweek has contacted X, SpaceX and Neuralink for comment.” Read at Newsweek ↗ Raw StoryL “Musk's representatives did not immediately respond to People's requests for comment, the outlet said.” Read at Raw Story ↗ CentreZilis is a venture capitalist and AI specialist who has worked with Musk's companies, including Neuralink, and court documents in 2022 revealed that she and Musk had twins. NewsweekN “She previously served at Neuralink and has been involved with several of Musk's AI ventures.”“In 2022, court documents revealed that she and Musk had welcomed twins together, and they now have four children.” Read at Newsweek ↗ LeftAccording to Raw Story, citing People, the twins Strider and Azure were born in 2021, a daughter, Arcadia, in 2024, and a son, Seldon, was announced in early 2025; Zilis also posted "New day, new life" on Sept. 27. Raw StoryL “The pair's twins, Strider and Azure, were born in 2021, according to People. Their daughter, Arcadia, followed in 2024, and the birth of their son, Seldon, was announced in early 2025.”“"New day, new life," Zilis wrote on X without context three days later, on Sept. 27, People reported.” Read at Raw Story ↗
LeftThe Verge recalled that at the trial earlier this year in which Musk sued Sam Altman over donations to OpenAI, Zilis denied under oath being Musk's chief of staff and said she worked across his AI portfolio, while Musk testified that she was his chief of staff. The VergeLC “she denied under oath that she was his chief of staff but says she worked across Musk’s “entire AI portfolio: Tesla, Neuralink, and OpenAI””“Musk apparently had a different view of her role, testifying that she was his chief of staff” Read at The Verge ↗ LeftThe Verge also noted that Musk has 14 known children and a history of public disputes with other mothers of his children, including Ashley St. Clair and Grimes. The VergeLC “Musk has 14 known children.”“Musk has a history of public flameouts with the women who bear his children.” Read at The Verge ↗ LeftRaw Story, citing Courthouse News, said Zilis told the court in May that her relationship with Musk was platonic when he offered to be a sperm donor so she could become a mother, and had since become romantic. Raw StoryL “She told the court that their relationship was platonic when Musk offered to be a sperm donor so she could become a mother, but that it had since become romantic.” Read at Raw Story ↗
LeftRaw Story quoted reactions on X from political writer Matthew Yglesias, disinformation researcher Dave Troy and commentator Molly Jong-Fast, who linked the split to Musk's treatment of other women, including Ashley St. Clair. Raw StoryL “"This tracks with the kind of treatment [Ashley St. Clair] describes in [documentary filmmaker Alex Gibney's] Elon musk movie," political commentator Molly Jong-Fast wrote on X.”“"Looks like Elon has fired his principal breeder," disinformation researcher Dave Troy wrote on X.” Read at Raw Story ↗ CentreThe Times of India described Zilis as a Neuralink executive and reproduced her post in full, including her description of herself and the children as Musk's "safe space" and her words "I'm hurting". The Times of IndiaN “Neuralink executive Shivon Zilis made a long social media post hinting that Elon Musk has broken up with him all of a sudden.”“We were always his safe space.” Read at The Times of India ↗
Every sentence links to the reporting it rests on. The pill in front of each says where its sources sit: Left, Centre or Right when one side supplies at least half of them, Mixed when they are evenly split.
Left2 outlets
- Framing
- Opinionated and sardonic (The Verge) or commentary-led (Raw Story), treating the breakup as internet drama and setting it against Musk's record with the mothers of his children, the OpenAI trial and Zilis's leaked texts.
- Emphasis
- Court testimony, Musk's history with other mothers of his children, the Kalshi sponsorship of the Big Tech Alert post, the screenshot of texts about the Xi dinner, and critical reactions from commentators on X.
- Leaves out or plays down
- Neither mentions the requests to X, SpaceX or Neuralink for comment; The Verge gives little weight to her hope for friendship and coparenting.
- Charged language
- “totally fucking cursed”“baby mamas”“principal breeder”“birthing partner”
Centre2 outlets
- Framing
- Straight reports centred on Zilis's statement, quoting it at length and noting the unfollow report and her hope to remain friends and coparents; The Times of India frames it as a question ('Did Elon Musk and Shivon Zilis break up?').
- Emphasis
- Zilis's own words, her hope for friendship and co-parenting, and (Newsweek) the request for comment from X, SpaceX and Neuralink.
- Leaves out or plays down
- Do not mention the court testimony about her role, the shared text screenshot, or Musk's other relationships.
- Charged language
- “militant existence”
- For example
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“The post appears to confirm that Zilis and Musk, whose relationship had largely remained private despite their growing family, are no longer together.” — Newsweek
“made a long social media post hinting that Elon Musk has broken up with him all of a sudden” — The Times of India
Right0 outlets
No right outlet in our sources has covered this story yet.
What every side reports
- Zilis posted on X that her relationship with Musk had ended, using the line about going 'from in love to let go in a week with no warning'.
- Zilis and Musk have four children together.
- The post followed a Big Tech Alert report that Musk had unfollowed Zilis on X.
- Zilis wrote that she felt she had given Musk stable, gentle love.
Where accounts differ
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When Zilis posted and how definitively it confirms a breakup
- Left
- Raw Story says she announced the split on Friday and treats it as a breakup, adding that Musk 'broke up with' her; The Verge says she announced they had broken up.
- Centre
- Newsweek says she posted on Thursday and that the post 'appears to confirm' they are no longer together; The Times of India says the post was 'hinting' at a breakup.
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Zilis and Musk's relationship ended abruptly, with no warning.
Reported- Reports 4
- Raw Story, The Verge, Newsweek, The Times of India
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Musk stopped following Zilis on X.
Reported- Reports 4
- Raw Story, The Verge, Newsweek, The Times of India
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Zilis and Musk can remain great friends and coparents of their four children.
Reported- Reports 4
- Raw Story, The Verge, Newsweek, The Times of India
Shivon Zilis person
Says she was 'let go' with no warning, describes having given Musk stable, gentle love, and hopes they can be friends and coparents of their four children.
“I do hope and pray he and I can be great friends and coparents.” — Newsweek
““It’s hard to go from in love to let go in a week with no warning, but that’s just how it is sometimes.”” — The Verge
Elon Musk person
No statement from Musk is reported; coverage cites only that he had stopped following Zilis on X, and The Verge cites his trial testimony that she was his chief of staff.
“Newsweek has contacted X, SpaceX and Neuralink for comment.” — Newsweek
“Musk apparently had a different view of her role, testifying that she was his chief of staff” — The Verge
Left2 articles
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Breaking up (with Elon Musk) is hard to do
Critical Sardonic commentary mocking the tone of Zilis's post and framing it within Musk's pattern of public fallouts and the OpenAI trial.

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'Hurting': Elon Musk breaks up with birthing partner as she leaks texts on White House
Critical Leads on Musk breaking up 'with no warning', adds the leaked text screenshot, Zilis's court testimony and pointed commentator reactions about Musk's treatment of women.

Centre2 articles
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Shivon Zilis, Mom to 4 of Elon Musk's Children, Says She's Been 'Let Go'
Sympathetic Reports Zilis's emotional statement at length as a news item, with background on her work and children.

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Neutral Short explainer that poses the breakup as a question and reproduces Zilis's full post, describing her as a Neuralink executive.

Right0 articles
No coverage yet.
- 2 Oct 16:52 First NewsweekN Shivon Zilis, Mom to 4 of Elon Musk's Children, Says She's Been 'Let Go'
- 2 Oct 18:37 +1h 45m The VergeLC Breaking up (with Elon Musk) is hard to do
- 2 Oct 19:22 +2h 30m The Times of IndiaN Did Elon Musk and Shivon Zilis break up? 'It's hard to go from in love to let go in a week wih no warning'
- 2 Oct 19:51 +2h 58m Raw StoryL 'Hurting': Elon Musk breaks up with birthing partner as she leaks texts on White House
Times are when each article was published, or when we first saw it if the outlet gave no time.